Will Smith talks about Responsibility



this uh having a debate with a friend of mine and we got stuck on the difference between alt and responsibility she kept talking about how something is somebody's fault if somebody's fault is like it really don't matter whose fault it is that something is broken if it's your responsibility to fix it for example is it's not somebody's fault if their father was an abusive alcoholic but it's for damn sure their responsibility to figure out how they're gonna deal with those traumas and try to make a life out of it not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage but it is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself fault and responsibility do not go together it sucks but they don't when something is somebody's fault we want them to suffer we want them punished we want them to pay want it to be their responsibility to fix it but that's that's not how it works especially when it's your heart your heart your life your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone longest weird pointing a finger and and stuck in whose fault something is we're jamming and trap into victim when you're in victim low you're stuck in suffering road to power is in taking responsibility your heart your life your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone hey I want to thank you for your response to my IG story the fall person's responsibility has been a lot of comments about that it was one thing I wanted to add also it's not like you're letting somebody who wronged you off the hook like taking responsibility as an act of emotional self-defense I want to say they're taking responsibility accepting responsibility is not an admission of guilt you're not you're not admitting that your fault taking responsibility is a recognition of the power that you sees when you stop blaming people taking responsibility is taking your power back




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