From ‘Iron Girls’ to ‘Leftovers’ – Independent Women in China


Have you ever been called a leftover woman? Yeah. Sometimes. Yeah… My name is Wei Ting Ting. I’m one of the family’s hope arrested before the International Women’s Day. We’re in China. Where women are experiencing unprecedented financial freedom. And since Mao founded the people’s Republic of China in 1949, Have enjoyed equal rights to men. Well, at least some people. Up until the Communist Revolution, women were pretty much considered property, And their feet were tied. Then Mao, when breaking the norms of social class in gender, declared that women carry half of the sky. And gender equality was written into the Constitution. Remember how American women were in power to join the workforce in 1940’s, when the men left for war. And then sent back to the kitchen in the 50’s when they returned. Back in the days of Mao, there wasn’t enough man-power to build the new China. So women joining the workforce were celebrated. As iron girls. These days, however, feminists are being detained. And for almost a decade, unmarried women older than 27, Have been called the term Xiong Nu, which means less of a woman. We’re here to find out why women’s social status in China is experiencing a backlash. Some Chinese parents are so worried of their daughters being referred to as leftovers, that they have taken the matters of finding them a spouse into their own hands. (synchronized singing with dinos) Runaway to one of China’s many wedding mar- (interrupted by velociraptors) We’re in one of Bejing’s many public parks, and today, in this one, there’s a wedding market on, where parents come to advertise their unmarried sons and daughters. These types of markets happen a lot, several times a week all over China. We met up with the local match-maker. Mr. Yan. So she’s born in 1980, so she’s actually.. 35. Is it difficult for her to find a husband at that age? Although China’s one child policy, which was introduced in the late 1970’s, was recently revoked, for parents, it has meant that an unmarried son or daughter, is the end of the family lineage. That’s why, it’s seen as a parent’s final duty in life to see their children married off. Is it possible to make an ad for me and see what happens? Finding a match is not easy. Because the one child policy has also created an extreme gender imbalance. Because sons were preferred, many would-be daughters were aborted. Meaning, there are over 20 million more men than women in China. Despite the real issue, being the leftover men, it’s still the women who are berated, for leaving their villages to try their luck in the cities, Where they can marry-up or pursue a career. Leaving millions of poor working men unable to find a spouse. Do you think I have good options to find a boyfriend? So basically, at these markets, you usually don’t come yourself. It’s usually your parents and often you don’t even know your parents are here, advertising you. Um.. And you need to put your height, your weight, usually your date of birth and what kind of spouse you’re looking for. Is the age of the man important? And is it important that the man earns more money? (Velociraptor roars) What kind of man are you looking for, for you daughter? Yeah, that’s me. Yeah. This guy wanted me to stand up, but I’m too tall, so… People seemed a bit confused as to why I’m here, and I’m pretty weirded out too, because I’m being judged, on completely superficial things, sitting here, in a dinosaur park. with plastic dinosaurs, growling. And people dancing and doing weird things. I got the feeling that it was because of the shortage of wives that the term leftover women was coined. To pressure girls to marry young, and stigmatize the women who choose to pursue a career, we wanted to find out what a day in the life is like, for one of China’s so called leftover women. So we met up with the young profession in Bejing. Actually I’m just a double-speaking teacher and listen teacher. So it this like your aspiration, like is this a job that you always wanted to do? Yeah, I mean, I like teaching because I like, help people. Yeah, I know it’s a like a two-way street. Yeah, I get to teach something, and they can just, uh… teach me something in a different way. Yeah.. It seems like everywhere you walk in China, you’re surrounded by all these ads of like, pretty young girls in wedding dresses. Yeah, I feel like it’s not e- Not everybody is lucky enough to get the one the way they want. And I feel like the leftover ladies um.. I don’t feel pity for them, or for us because we really know what we want. (unlocking the door) Ok, welcome to my home! (laughs a little) Oh wow, so this is your room! Yeah, right. It’s kind of a little bit messy, you know how a girl’s room is, you know.. And have any of these girls like experienced any sub-comment or difficulties because they’re not like weak and frail, because they’re actually like career-oriented? Yeah… Right, there are, and then we’re like called like, you know, half-women. Like “nü han zi” in China. Is that another term, it’s not just leftover women, you also have to -Yeah -Tough girl is another term? Exactly, these are two really famous popular terms in China. Wow, they really don’t like tough girls in China. Sometimes, it’ll come as like unfair, but we are quite okay about it. We are still living in the way that we like, we don’t care too much about what other people think. Yeah, we’re like, leftover ladies, oh my gosh! Can we do the one that tells you your age? Oh, oh yeah, yeah ,yeah! Wait, analyzing. Ahh! I’m even older than you! (laughter) That’s, that’s good right? Yeah, right. That’s a good age. It’s a good age! Being in your thirties is like being in your twenties all over again. Oh, oh okay. Look at all these leftover ladies. This one is pretty cute.. You know what’s ironic to me? Uhum. In China, the real issue is the leftover men because there’s so many more men than women. Yeah, why is it not “more leftover men” ? But they don’t label the men leftover. Yeah, right. Is there any sort of hope or expectation your family got your age, say you should be sort of having your own family or anything like that? Yeah, like always, right. Like, always, this is like a big issue for me as 26 years old uh.. girl. Yeah.. The other day, I just celebrated my own birthday. I called my grandpa and he just uh.. said something like you know, cliché again like, “Hey, you are getting old.” Yeah, I was like, seriously? I’m only 26. And then, he said, “Come on, go find a valiable boyfriend.” Oh, you’re not you know, you don’t have to set your bar too high, because you’re not that good enough. (short “seriously?” laugh) And yeah, he’s just using this strategy, he wants me to live a good life, ok, but, I feel like what’s the difference is that I feel like finding boyfriends is not the only issue in my life. It felt strange to me that someone as young as Nicole, should feel pressure to get married. But she’s lucky, as her family still relatively understand. But we’ve heard of cases where girls have been shunned by their families, for refusing to tie the knot. This mentality is so ingrained in today’s China, that the wedding and dating industry is thriving, and predicted to soon surpass $300 million dollars a year. We tried out another one of one of China’s many increasingly popular match finding options. Today is Chinese Valentine’s Day, and we’re at an amusement park, where there’s going to be a speed dating event taking place, and I’m going to find out what the details are for registry. But it seems like people have to wear paper bags. The speed dating event was organized by a match-making agency, infamous for TV ads in that so called “leftover women”. Which has sparked public outcry on Chinese social media. Okay, see like all the girls are told to stand on one side. And then the boys on the other. Had a hard time believing that I could find Mr. Right. Wearing a paper bag in an octopus-themed amusement park. Oh, thank you, xiè xiè. Hi, I’m Milene. Oh you’re from Panama, Mongolia! Yes, yes. I really want to go to Mongolia! Girls in China have a lot of pressure to get married before they’re 27. Do you feel that pressure on you as well, being a guy? What are girls usually looking for in a guy? Can we go horse-riding in Mongolia? I was brought up on stage, blind folded, and asked to pick a man. He’s cute! So I’m looking for somebody who will make me laugh, and who’s intelligent, and who reads a lot of books. They clearly didn’t get my criteria for what I was looking for in a partner. Having witnessed the gender norms in modern China, It was hard to imagine the days where strong working women were idolized. Back in the days, China’s 1960’s and 70’s cultural revolution, Wang Zheng was a movie star of the era’s revolutionary heroine films. So she has personal insight on ambitious women’s drastic shifts from being celebrated as iron girls, to being denounced as leftover women. In 1980’s, was China’s reform period. During which former leader Deng Xiaoping opened up China to foreign investment. Despite this social pressure to marry young, and women’s pursuit of a career often frowned upon, more and more Chinese women refuse to buy into that social stigma. Cities like Bejing and Shanghai are full of unmarried, successful career women. We’re going to go meet some of them from a group called Lean In Bejing. To see how they feel about this whole concept about the leftover women. Lean In Bejing was founded in 2012. Inspired by Facebook Chief Operating Officer, Sheryl Sandberg’s book of the same name. They already have thousands of members across China. Nicole is one of them. Please come in. Great, thank you! I think the role of this organization is to allow or to encourage, you know, Chinese women to define what success is and what their own goals and dreams are on their own terms. There is life after 30. I think many Chinese people are terrified of turning 30. and that, you know, should they choose to pursue a career and even if society says she is leftover, you know, they can still live full and happy lives. I feel like there are time we’re too focused on the time on edge, right, and that I love, I love the leftover ladies, this disconcept. I feel like it’s comminent. You are brave to be a leftover lady, standing, we’re still waiting for any good relationships, we still have hope for love, for our dreams, out careers. My experience with love relationships that is pretty much the most unreliable thing, but you can try, if you’re drunk. And the most reliable thing surely is having a career, so that you can support yourself and you’re children no matter what happens. What kind of issues have you all faced in your professional life that you bring here and talk about together? After the meeting, Nicole invited us for a night talk. So did you get your nails done often? Um.. yeah. Do you think it’s confusing for people that you do your nails you like all these girly things, but then, you and all the other Lean In girls ae quite like strong and tough? Yeah. Is that something that confuses people? I feel like this is like conservative, you know, stereotype. We’re not supposed to be really capable or aggressive in the public place or workplace, but I know things that weren’t changed. You know, China in the old days is much better than before more advanced. Would you call yourself a feminist? I don’t think so. Yeah, I’m not a feminist. I mean, it’s like always just put yourself on the opposite side of the men. Like always fight with each other. I don’t think that’s a good saying, I mean, I, I think it’s too strong. The word feminist seems to have negative connotation in China. Even women who tick all the boxes for what a feminist is, like, Nicole, will avoid this label. The feminism does still exist in China. Being politically active feminist in China is risky and can get you detained. But there’s still people who do it. We’re on our way to meet a feminist collective called BECOME. Her currently rehearsing a Chinese version of the vagina monologues. The Va-China monologue. What does it say on your shirt? This is what feminism looks like in Chinese. Is feminism big in China? That’s insane, China has about a fifth of the world’s women and you have a thousand feminist. That’s kind of scary.. You’ve had friends who’s been arrested by the police for doing feminist activities. Are you ever scared? In the lead up to the International Women’s Day in 2015, the arrest of China’s feminists five made world news. The five women’s rights activists in China have been held for a month on suspicion of picking quarrels, and provoking trouble. Actually meeting one of the feminist five, who are now all on probation, would be too risky for everyone involved. Instead, we got one of their activist, Ting Ting, to film herself answering our questions. According to the UN, more than 50% of Chinese men abuse their partners. And marital rate is not a crime in China. And in national estimate, the half million people are currently in punitive detention, without charge or trial in China. And that surveillance, house arrests, imprisonment of activists is on the increase.




Comments
  1. So if you aren't career orientated you're just "weak and frail"? Okay, that's saying all mothers and married women are weak and frail for wanting to have a traditional marriage?

  2. They should make the men do more to become just as strong as those "left over women", if not stronger still.
    And take out all men that would commit marital rape and abuse their spouses, that's just wrong, why abuse the mother of your children?
    How ever, why can't women not marry young then pursue a career along side their husbands?
    Before starting an actual family, that way they put their family at peace. To show they are married, but just not ready to start their own family yet. ^^

  3. Honestly China politician have point on this. Sure there's a few women who would like to be single. But it is honestly to see such thing because they literally left no marking in earth behind. They just consume from this earth didn't produce. They supposedly fill part of their purpose in life. Why do you think women have vagina? Decoration?

  4. Honestly this actually a good thing if that happens to China because China would therefore lose its population and therefore lose its power. China is screwed if more people start doing the opposite. I like that actually. It will eliminate the chances of China being a superpower

  5. Just more feminist propaganda about you go girl, independent, strong don't need a man. Then these women buy in to this crap and end up alone living with cats missing out on a solid home, husband children all because they drank the feminist Kool-aid. Such a pity and waste of lives.

  6. If feminism is not about bashing men, I am in. How can you win an argument intelligently by putting the other gender down? You are caught in the same trap that enslaved women – using aggression. In that sense, I am Not a feminist. Even equal right is a misogyny. Seriously men and women are different. There is gender differentiation, thus each gender have their own strengths. Society should look at strengths and pay on meritocracy. I am all for fair practices. I was well paid in the communication field looking after Asia. Communication was my strength and was well rewarded for it. Yes, even in Asia. I did not have to be ‘more of a man’ to be noticed, I was able to be me while staying focused on the result. That’s how women can change the tide of gender inequality. Show the world we can do a job just as well, if not better. Not becoming bitter.

  7. The problem was never with women becoming "equal", the problem is, and has always been, women's nature to always want better no matter what they are used to having while never planning anything of value out further than 5 minutes in front of their faces- this is what ruins it for them every single time and they will need a man to come fix whatever they broke (usually ends up like religion where they want to pick and choose when they want to be "strong" and when to be "weak" and men are supposed to read each individuals minds for these signals).

    This happens literally every time in human history-

    1. Women want to get equal benefits to men in all things along with female privileges (they already have great value in society as women but they get bored with it and want more- as with pretty much anything in their possession).
    2. They get it.
    3. Their brain wants "equality" but their nature/instincts still want a man who is "better" than she is to feel safe in the home.
    4. This newfound position forces them to go after "higher" men.
    5. There are fewer "higher" men to pick from and these men have all the picking power.
    6. Many of these women simply do not get picked and continuously age as a result. They will inevitably not want to mate with "lower" or "equal" men as they will instinctively view them as "weak" (some will literally rather breed with their immediate/secondary family than downgrade to "worker" status).
    7. Some of these women will "downgrade" so they can at least have children, but will resent the man for the rest of her life for not being "stronger" than she is.
    8. Single parent households skyrocket which leads to skyrocketed criminal rates, lesser quality education, etc.
    9. Women realize what they had and teach the newer ones to learn from their mistakes
    10. After enough time, repeat steps 1 through 9.

    Also, I love to see Western women go to countries like this where they aren't worshiped just for being skinny with make-up @ 8:00 the look in their eyes is of total shock. They always get humbled real quick and are looking for the first flight out of there LOL.

  8. Nature is so smart. Nobody wants this feminist boss womans around so they dont have children so their dna dies and society balance it self again. Genius.

  9. I'm 27 and 5'10". It's already really difficult for me to find anyone in America. Imagine what Chinese women have to go through. Damn.

  10. Feminism has nothing to do with helping women. Feminism is meant to drive a wedge between men and women (divide and conquer) so the nation can be conquered. Cultural marxism is meant to destroy a society so that society can be more easily controlled.

  11. video was good till they mention the feminazis
    (all feminist who oppose men in negative way both direct and passive aggressive).

  12. I don't blame that girl for not wanting to be considered a feminist. I feel the same way. I've seen those crazy feminists in Western countries that walk around in bloody pants or blame all problem on men.

  13. if anyone calls you a "shengnü", thank them and say you are very proud to be considered a holy woman 😀
    (圣女, exact same pronunciation)

  14. For all these women in comments section still feeling discriminated.
    Your wish will be fulfilled. Your sister's are fulfilled in Sweden n Norway by Somali and Arab woman. You deserve them. When they will rape u throw u and n badly injure u while police will not file a complaint bcoz the 45yr old Somali will have a 9 yr old written on Social security card. Get a taste of your own medicine!! 3rd wave Feminism riuning theself!!

  15. @ 20:55 Bimbo thats bcoz u got pregnant by your boy friend @ 12yr aborted , had multiple partners throughout your 20's and now in 30's no body wants u. Not even 60yr old. Don't talk about love u never had , u never experienced u never will have. Just be prepared for a long by giving yourself false satisfactiobn by attending these get togethers!!!

  16. 14:16 is priceless, the reporter looked her picked up/chosen guy as if he was an alien, from that moment you see how the reporter's hypergamy instinct told her, "my god, this guy does not speak english, has no money, is ugly, has no desired height, nothing i would want in a man" hehe, so much fun, most chinese women will end up with cats because they think they are too much for these kind men and the interesting thing is that chinese gov changed child policy for the chinese men to marry and most chinese men will end up mtgow in few years and the gov will be overthrown by the looks of how things will end up to.

  17. This sort of disgusting attitudes are so prevalent in India or rather all Asian countries. Men with such mindsets are bound to remain virgin forever.

  18. Might go to China to find a wife.. Yall Western woman are to crazy and beyond picky.. even the ugly ones.. Know you role too.. damn!

  19. I'm taking a stab in the dark here, but there seems to be a lot of Incel members giving their 2 cent on how women should behave. Ever heard the phrase people living in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Women can be anything, do anything within acceptable societal norms for either gender but most important of all it is up to women to choose if they want a companion on their life long journey just as it is for men.

  20. China is doomed, sub-replacement fertility and an ageing population due to feminism will destroy a 3000+ year civilization.

  21. theres not a single benefit to marrying a woman. literally nothing. she's a giant liability and headache, especially because you have responsibility for her actions and none of the control over them. thats a fucking bad deal and men are not stupid.

  22. a older woman is better more experienced and if she is smart thats even better its a asset to the marriage.a man should not be intimated by a smart woman he should not feel inferior.there a very smart woman and also men just chose someone you love and enjoy life

  23. I dunno, but just from wide experience, i suggest you find the one whom you are most comfortable, who's shit you can put up with (and vice versa), and who you love. That actually is the top of the bell curve. There are variations from that norm, but they actually rate lower on the curve, trust me 🙂 The woman at the end is right though, every generation has to fight the battle

  24. This is nonsense and misleading to Chinese people. my fiance is from China and she drives a brand new range rover and her dads got a maybach. I drive a 8 year old civic and she is the sweetest girl i ever met and smart and she still want to be with me. She is not superficial that only cares about how rich I am

  25. My foster sister couldn't find a man and wanted kids, she went to the clinic bla bla bla now has two lovely children. I wonder how that would be taken in China if a woman chose to do that if they couldn't find someone but wanted children.

  26. There are much, much more leftover men. First off, during the cultural revolution, an entire generation of young boys were trained and hypnotized by propaganda to denounce "traitors to the revoltion" and became blood thirsty savages. After the reform, Mao knew he couldn't have this group of savages, now young men, of his own creation terrorizing society while he tried to modernize and stabilize china. Therefore, many of them were wiped from the record, and deported to the countryside. Later during the 80s-90s, some were allowed to return, but a many stayed behind. Now, with the one child policy. This policy took traditional preference of men instead of women to the extreme, resulting in a extreme gender imbalance. This means tens of million of chinese men will not have a spouse, and be able to marry. While the purge an entire gender was terrible, Women have it bettter now, in my opinion, they can afford to be picky and choose a better man, because they are in demand now. I would argue it is men being left behind, literally, in rural villages all the women move to the big city, and in any rural village there are no women, period. How do i know this? My dad was born in beijing in 1960, meaning he experienced the cultural revolution as a child, old enough to remember, and young enough to not be sent off into the country side and wiped from society. He moved to america after the tiananmen square massacre, and he in now a US citizen.

  27. This video forgot about the fact that millions of them prefer virgin female lol, well to be exact, young virgin girls, and this is not just in China. It’s all caused by the media though, especially those Korean and Japanese tv dramas, they tend to have those cute innocent girls as the main female lead.

  28. If a man's goal is to have a family with kids then it doesn't make sense to pursue a older woman when it takes the same amount of effort to get a young girl vs a older woman. Plus younger woman are more attractive overall. That and the fact that other close Asian countries like Vietnam and Philippians have plenty of available woman. It just common sense to not pursue a older woman.

  29. I appreciate that this examines this social issue through the lens of the individual, but also through the narrative of class struggle that is still a major driving force in Chinese society.

  30. "Then Mao, when breaking the norms of social class in gender, declared that women carry half the sky"
    You know what else he destroyed? Families. Scholars. Books full of knowledge and wisdom from hundreds even thousands of years ago. Family records. So many peoples lives were ruined thanks for him. He may have had good intentions in the beginning, but he became corrupt and power hungry as time went on. He lied to those who supported him. Yup. What a GREAT role model.

  31. the whole of China needs to be on r/choosingbeggars. Theres clearly millions more men that are going to die single, but sure, lets call the women leftovers

  32. The don't be so picky mentality is fucked up. Women should be picky. Not for perfection but compatibility. Marriage is the hardest thing to succeed in life. You can't do it with a partner who doesn't match you. Also I've been told to find someone who is good to me and nice. They're called friends. You really can't marry someone you're not at least attracts to. But apparently girls at being forced to do that. Well, I'm being very strongly persuaded.

  33. I love to see how the feminists get upset here !!! But in the west it’s similar, once you hit 35 you’ve hit the “wall”… you’ve lost everything. Men age like fine wine while women like milk…it’s common knowledge

  34. I feel strange watching this. I learnt very early on that expecting someone to save you/grant your wishes leads to only problematic expectations and more suffering. Nothing is set in stone and there is nothing outside of your mind that you can control.

    Lmao as an adult your only young for like fifteen years at best and then it's all over.
    If your happy and satisfied with your life then why do you need the approval of others? There isn't time for you to listen and carry out everyone's opinions and that is never going to end anyways…

  35. Asian Invasion, Asian Men immigrating to other countries to snatch foreign women forgotten by ungrateful men (ex. USA and Russia).

    Foreign Investment = Western femicide, self-hate, material possessions etc.

  36. All men with no exception want only young girls from 15 to 23 years old, if you are older than that men are going to reject you, even if you are young and marry a man as you get older he will get tired of being with you and he will search for another young girl to continue the cycle.So please if you are a woman don't get marry cause your husband is going to make you suffer, I choose single life is the best you do whatever the hell you want, you'll be free and happy

  37. The journalist appeared to be mocking the parents for their hunt to find a mate for their children. Very rude even if you don’t agree with their parents!

  38. That lady with the 5’10” daughter ! Damn I would take her in a flash… she has legs for days and the reporter is 32yrs old “too old” wtf u smoking old man ?!? She is absolutely beautiful..

  39. The reporter gave an idiotic feminist twist to this all. Feminism is a big factor in this situation. Women should be praised for being mothers and wives. That bullshit "career" is laughable. We're not talking about someone who invents electricity but someone who sits on her ass all day to assemble an item like a robot. Pushing that and mocking mothers and housewives, who are the center of a family, is disgusting.

  40. I honestly think we should put women to the test just to see how strong and equal to man they are .lets seperate as men and women .meaning men don't build or maintain anything for them.such as plumbing electronics road maintenance even government.could you lady's do it.you should be able to your equal to man you are better without us we just keep you strong independent women down.so go do it.build your own civilizations create your own government. Build your own buildings make your own highways and maintaine them then lay your pipes for water and sewer become farmers grow your own foods .create your own military and fight your wars.if you can do all these things by yourselves then I'll say your just like men

  41. It's always interesting when someone from a different country comes and criticizes other people's beliefs and way of life. I'm not saying what they doing is right but what the hell is with your saviour complex. Not everyone should live the way you say is right or wrong because you don't get to decide that.

  42. A woman over 40 cannot have babies. A man usually only marries a woman if she can have babies, or if she is significantly younger than he is (15 to 20 years younger) so she is a beautiful 'hood ornament' for him to look at. For that reason, if a woman is over 40, her ONLY chance to marry a man is if she goes for a man who is 15 or more years older than she is. Sorry but that is the truth, like it or not.

  43. That leftover lady wait until you 40 I want to hear you say I don’t need a family by then I’m telling you from experience you gonna regret saying that feminist BS

  44. China has a birth rate barely above 1. That is basically a population collapse.

    Right now. Those women hold more value as mothers that any other function.

    They want the best men. But those men don't want them.

    Either settle for a man who has less than her. And he will be the actual nurturer while she's the breadwinner..

    Or give up on a guy and use surrogacy and sperm donation.

    Don't like.. reality doesn't care.

  45. This is what femenism did: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyenSX4XSZA

    Women have their own money, their own careers, their independence – yet the majority seem to be totally irresponsible when it comes to relationships and TOTALLY OUT TO LUNCH WHEN IT COMES TO REAL EQUALITY.

     Women, despite their societal, career, and financial advancement STILL want the man to do the financial leg work, and growing legions of men are NOT INTERESTED IN THAT AT ALL! Not all woman are like that – but most women ARE like that! Men see women STILL want to keep their money, and dispense sex as the meager compensation to us while our wallets go empty supporting them and their consumer addictions.

     They then turn around and mock and ridicule us in their 'girlfriend' circles as 'nothing more than sex addicted idiots' who they can wrap around their finger if they flash their pussy. More men are seeing through this bullshit game and numbing hypocrisy! Men are dismissing women, bypassing sex, and slamming their wallets SHUT! Men are finding that sex is momentary and easy to acquire. The vast majority of modern women are not worthy of the pursuit, effort, and the accompanying grief they have no compunction unloading onto a man who refuses to comply with their increasingly ridiculous demands.

     Men are finding that their money is better spent on themselves, their dreams, and their desires. Women, feminists, white knights, and manginas HATE MGTOW (and other men supporting MGTOW) because once men have taken the pill, educated themselves and made themselves aware of the dangers of modern relationships, they protect themselves. That one little fact scares everyone in that category right to their core!

     Zero power = zero control! One thing men are also becoming aware of is 1) Feminists are so fearful of MGTOW, and are now desperately extending olive branches to men, are saying that feminism will take care of our problems too, and 2) The number of women who see MGTOW growing (one of the top Google searches) and are apologizing for what they've done to us, asking us to forget the past, come back into the fold, desperately hoping we will go back to being little wage slaves again. It's a ruse! It's bullshit! It's a lie! It's desperation! Don't get suckered in!!

      Men have dumped their traditional roles in response to women dumping theirs, Men are aware of women's decades long, disgusting treatment of men. WE ARE NOT GOING BACK! We have to make women suffer before we even think about a peace treaty and a lot of things will have to change before we even consider that! The mess women are in is NOT of men's doing! It's women's and feminist's!

    NO PEACE TREATY!! NO MERCY!! Save yourselves men and Go Your Own Way and Claim your freedom!

  46. sex is over rated.
    lets make this clear, a womans only value to a man is having children and caring for those children.
    men can do everything else.
    a womans fertility is the only factor involved in the selection of woman. anything beyond that is a bonus.
    Feminism is poison to society.
    if the Chinese allow it to propagate it will decimate them like it already has done to the west.

  47. China went through an amazing shift from the traditional extended family, agriculturally based to a party-controlled semi-capitalism where young people fled to the cities for education and jobs. This along with Incredibly high standards imposed by both sexes have created the present situation.

  48. She’s right. I don’t care about the leftover women. I’m more concerned about the leftover men. I hear it’s like hell and has left to dangerous activity.

  49. Theres a reason for this and its a proven fact women expect and want more from their man and same for men to their women women want a man with a big wallet and is good looking and good sex stamina like omg calm tf down😂😂😂and men what a youthful energetic woman bc were horny all the time and this is just fax😂😂😂😂

  50. Men dont want to enter a marriage agreement with women who have a habit of being whores, because no matter what you do, they'll eventually yearn for their whore days, become unhappy, and divorce rape you.

  51. It's a feminist video , Feminists must not be arrested but must be shot in China .
    When females are left unmarried then they have problem and if married then also they have bigger problem . .

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